I never really been able to separate the two. Like so many other things I cant separate; my toothbrush/toothpaste, my hand/phone, my heart/mind. I have issues - some caused by others but all the same, that's something I have to deal with.
Ok, so we've found something already that I don't have a concrete answer too. I will though. I always find one. There's nothing wrong with not knowing; it's what you do next to find out.
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